Why Do Women Go After the Same Men Over and Over Again, Even When They Always Get Hurt?

Hello all my wonderful readers,

Wow! Do I have a perplexing question for you today...Why Do Women Go After the Same Men Over and Over Again, Even When They Always Get Hurt?

Well that is a very complex question and I could write for days on the subject, so let me see if I can just give you a simplified answer.

Women who constantly get hurt by the men they're involved with are usually insecure and seeking something in themselves that they might not even be aware of. You see, we grow up with certain insecurities and self-esteem issues and when we are close with somebody we tend to pick men subconsciously who feed these insecurities because this is all we know. We are in familiar territory, so even though it feels bad, it also feels comfortable to us.

Relationships are so hard and they will never be perfect, but they should make you feel good about yourself. It becomes a problem when the person you're with makes you feel worse about yourself. Can you change him? Only if he wants to change for you and the relationship. Most likely though, this type of man is facing his own insecurities so he doesn't know how to fix his own problems, how can he fix yours? If nothing gets better, getting out of the relationship early can save you a lot of damage to your self-esteem. By ending it, you are saying that you are worth more. You are saying that you deserve respect and better treatment, and that will be the confidence boost that you need.

It is so hard to break a cycle that you have been acclimated to throughout your life, but it will get better over time if you work on it. Take this time to look into yourself first and figure out what you are seeking and make a list of things that are important to you in a relationship. Your new attitude will attract the right kinds of men that will be healthy for you.